How to Talk About Hospice Care with Your Loved One

It may be incredibly emotional to discuss end-of-life care options with our loved ones, especially when aggressive medical care has been exhausted and finding a cure seems unlikely or impossible. In these challenging moments, it is important to remember that hospice care can offer support and aim to give the people we love the best quality of life possible, for as long as possible.

Opening the conversation about exploring hospice care can ensure that your loved one’s desires regarding care goals, level of medical intervention, and preferred place of death are honored. Ideally, this conversation takes place before the need for end-of-life care becomes urgent, to allow your loved one to receive the full benefits of hospice care.

Why It’s Important to Talk About Hospice Early

Many families wait until a crisis before discussing hospice, which can limit the comfort and support available. Having this conversation early allows your loved one to take advantage of the full benefits of hospice care, from symptom relief to emotional and spiritual support.

Tips for Starting the Conversation

If you’re struggling to start a conversation regarding end-of-life care options with your loved one, try the following suggestions:

Choose a quiet time and place where your loved one is not in a stressful environment.
Minimize distractions by silencing your phone and turning off the TV.
Start with openness: “If you’re comfortable, I would like to talk to you about your illness.”
Have an honest, gentle discussion about their prognosis and challenges such as pain, frequent hospitalizations, and emotional strain.
If they express a desire to stop curative treatment or want to live in comfort, introduce hospice care as the next step.
Emphasize that hospice is about comfort, dignity, and support rather than giving up hope.
Let your loved one lead the conversation and listen without judgment.
Be empathetic, encouraging, and reassuring.
If they’re not ready, don’t push, reiterate your support and revisit later.

Respecting Your Loved One’s Wishes

Every person approaches the idea of hospice differently. Some may feel relief knowing comfort is available, while others may fear losing independence. Listening with compassion and understanding is key to ensuring their values and wishes guide the conversation.

FAQs About Discussing Hospice Care

When should I talk to my family about hospice?
Ideally, before end-of-life care becomes urgent. Early discussions allow patients to access more support and avoid unnecessary hospitalizations.

How do I know if my loved one is ready for hospice?
Signs may include frequent hospital visits, unmanaged symptoms, or a desire to stop aggressive treatments. A physician can help determine eligibility.

Can hospice care be provided at home?
Yes, most hospice care is provided in the comfort of a patient’s home, with support available 24/7.

Support for Families Having the Conversation

Talking about hospice care with a loved one is never easy, but starting the conversation early can ensure their wishes are respected and their comfort prioritized. You don’t have to go through it alone. Orange Hospice is here to guide you with compassion and understanding.

We’re Here for You

If you’re ready to learn more about how hospice can help your family, call us today at (714) 790-0594. Our team is available 24/7 to answer questions and provide support.

Vinh N.

00:13 11 Oct 25

Sung P.

18:44 07 Oct 25

"Exceptional Care and Compassionate Support!"Our family recently experienced the incredible support of Orange Hospice, and we couldn't be more grateful. From the very beginning, we were met with warmth, empathy, and professionalism. The entire team went above and beyond to ensure that our loved one was comfortable and cared for with the utmost dignity.The nurses and care coordinators were always attentive, answering all our questions and providing updates with kindness and patience. They made sure not only that our family member was at ease but also that we, as a family, felt supported throughout the entire process.What stood out the most was the genuine compassion of the staff. They didn't just treat it as a job; they truly cared about our loved one's comfort and our family's well-being. The level of personalized care and emotional support we received was beyond our expectations.If you're looking for a hospice service that truly cares, I highly recommend Orange Hospice. They made a difficult time so much more bearable for our family, and for that, we are deeply thankful.

Michelle Y.

19:37 24 Sep 25

I cannot thank Orange Hospice enough for the incredible care and compassion they provided during such a difficult time for my client’s family. From the very first phone call, their team was kind, responsive, and incredibly supportive

Diane P.

20:30 02 Sep 25

I'm not one to write reviews but feel that I needed to write this one for Orange Hospice because it was google and the reviews that led me to them.I was unfamiliar with the end of life process and originally had my mother under the care of a different hospice company that was recommended to me by her assisted living facility. I soon felt that she wasn't getting the care that she needed and switched to Orange Hospice. The care that Orange Hospice provided for my family and my mom was really above and beyond and I learned that not all hospice services are the same. They were so informative and took time to explain everything to me and answer every one of my countless phone calls and questions with care and respect. The nurses were top notch and professional yet personal and caring. They were compassionate, and kind and they went above their duties to take care of my mother. I feel that every nurse, and team member from Orange Hospice were heaven sent to us. I want to especially thank Nat, who really went out of her way to make sure that my mother was never alone during the her final days. I also want to add that I'm Korean American and my mother is Korean, I was looking for a Hospice Service that could communicate with my mother in Korean and with me in English, Orange Hospice provided that for us as well. Thank you Orange Hospice.

Stella C.

07:36 24 Aug 25

Orange Hospice truly exceeded our expectations. They explained all of our questions and gave us emotional support. We were always assured that we received the highest level of care. Also, we were impressed by their compassion and knowledge which they provided us during a difficult time.Thank you so much especially to Nat and Joy and the rest of the team for the care you gave to my mother and our family.

Christopher H.

04:43 18 Aug 25

I can’t say enough good things about "Orange Hospice". Their team is incredibly professional and compassionate. From the experienced office staff to the exceptional nurses, everyone went above and beyond to support our family during a difficult time. The office team was always responsive and on top of everything whenever we needed assistance.Their 24-hour hotline was a lifesaver—available anytime we had urgent concerns or needed guidance. It gave us real peace of mind knowing help was always just a phone call away.When my mother was discharged from the hospital, Orange Hospice coordinated everything flawlessly. They made sure her apartment was fully equipped with all the necessary medical supplies, equipment, and medications before she even arrived. Their efficiency and attention to detail were truly impressive.What stood out most was how they treated my mother—not just as a patient, but as a person. Their care was warm, personal, and deeply respectful. It made her feel valued and comfortable, which meant the world to us.I strongly recommend orange Hospice to your loved ones who needs hospice care.

Tedd C.

17:42 15 Aug 25

I didn't know what to expect with hospice, however, I was in search of a lifeline due to my mother's sudden decline due to dementia. I stumbled upon Orange Hospice and was very fortunate. They were compassionate and responsive beyond my expectations. Their services, of which there are many, provided a great relief.

Peter S.

20:12 13 Aug 25

I appreciate all of the support that I received from Orange Hospice's team. They came through for us during our most difficult time. Thank you so much to everyone on the team, words cannot express our gratitude for everything you have done.

Caitlin D.

19:30 02 Aug 25

Through volunteering with Orange Hospice, I truly can see how much they care for their patients. They are so incredibly quick to provide more volunteer services to patients when they are able to, be communicative with the patient's family, and overall just be the best support they can throughout this experience. The staff is incredibly nice and truly cares, and it reflects in their work.

Noori K.

17:46 01 Aug 25

christina O.

17:37 01 Aug 25

Orange hospice, Sydney, and all team orange hospice, I wish to give you back the The greatest compliment a company can receive, but that wouldn’t be enough, YOUR WORK individually speaks and walks for itself, your tender, love, and care for your patients is unmatched. Xoxoxo

Brendan L.

14:05 01 Aug 25

Truly an amazing team! The amount of patience, care, and attentiveness that they provide goes unmatched with any other hospice! Thank you!

Salia S.

13:52 01 Aug 25

I can't express how grateful I am to Orange Hospice for their care and effort put into every interaction. Thank you to all the staff for putting my mind at ease, time and time again.

Cindy L.

03:24 01 Aug 25

We can't thank Orange Hospice enough for the exceptional care they gave my mom. From day one, their team demonstrated incredible compassion and professionalism. They not only provided top-notch medical services but also offered invaluable emotional support to our entire family. Their dedication made a profound difference. Strongly recommend this hospice.

Miranda

22:09 31 Jul 25

I actually had a pleasant time getting information from Orange Hospice. It's clear their employees are committed to being professional and polite while also getting things done quickly and efficiently. While I wish no one needed these types of services, I'd gladly recommend this one.

Joyce H.

22:29 04 Jun 25

We’re so grateful for the care our grandmother is receiving from Orange Hospice. From the start, the team has been kind, attentive, and made everything so much easier during an overwhelming time.The nurses are amazing—compassionate, skilled, and always there to answer our questions. They’ve treated our grandmother with so much respect and dignity, easing her discomfort while keeping her comfort at the center of care.The volunteers have been a blessing, giving us needed breaks while making sure she’s never alone. Their kindness has given us peace of mind.The entire staff has been exceptional, delivering supplies on time and always checking in to make sure we’re okay. Their attention to detail and support means the world to us.We can’t thank Orange Hospice enough. If you need compassionate, respectful care for a loved one, we highly recommend them.

Sanina P.

17:35 03 Jun 25

What more can I say other then Orange Hospice is heaven sent.The staff and the genuine concern was just absolutely amazing. Their willingness to go above and beyond what was expected was beyond measure. I will forever be grateful to God for leading us to this place in our time of need. Thank you so much to the staff of Orange Hospice.

joeygee R.

05:48 07 May 25

My mother went into hospice last month, though she left us way too soon, Her transition was a peaceful one with the assistance of Orange Hospice.The care from administration and the caring nursing staff with their utmost care and knowledge made our family feel very comfortable and informative every single day.Thank you from the bottom of our hearts to everyone that took such great care of Mom. .

Shelley Q.

20:41 06 May 25

Orange Hospice provided our family with compassionate and professional care. They made sure to provide us with medical supplies right away so we would never run out. They cared for my grandmother with attentiveness and made sure she was comfortable. The nurses and staff were very responsive and supportive to our family emotionally. They kept us informed and guided us every step of the way, which gave us comfort.

Luis C.

19:57 05 May 25

El servicio de Orange Hospice es incomparable. La rapides con que te contestan es impresionante pero lo que mas me gusta es que son respetuosos y tratan a las personas con tanto cuidado como si fuera familia. Gracias Orange Hospice

Glen N.

23:24 02 May 25

The Orange Hospice team has been taking care of my Dad and his ALS for at least four weeks now and the care has been incredibly timely and very effective. Everyone on the team is effective and has been fantastic to work with. I would highly recommend Orange Hospice.

Stan W.

02:45 01 May 25

Professional, caring the OC Hospice has a full program that makes these difficult times seem like you are not alone. Thanks to them!

Young Sook C.

20:34 29 Apr 25

저희 어머니가 오렌지 호스피스에 도움을 받았습니다. 어머니를 돌봐주신 간호원 한분 한분이 얼마나 정성으로 어머니를 돌봐주시던지 너무 감사했습니다.환자를 대하는 태도가 의무가 아닌 마음을 다해 아픔이 없는지 불편한 것은 없는지 너무 세세하게 친절하게 섬겨주셨습니다.또한 다른 필요들도 메니져와 바로 연락이 되어서 무엇이든지 공급을 원할하개 해 주셔서 불편함이 전혀 없었습니다..오렌지 호스피스에 진심으로 감사드립니다.

Philip Seung Pil S.

19:35 29 Apr 25

All the staff were nice answering all the questions that we had regardless how many times we called. They went over the process multiple times until we are fully comfortable. They also collaborated with Woodbridge Pharmacy to expedite the medication delivery services. I highly recommend to everyone who are considering hospice care for their loving ones. This would be the last place for my loved to spend time. Thank you!

Raymond T.

19:28 07 Mar 25

I have been working with Orange hospice for some time now. My residents and families are very satisfied with the care they’re receiving. I personally observed their team effort making my clients comfortable, improving each individuals quality of life and preserving their dignity. Thanks to the friendly staff who are always warm, and professional willing to lend a hand when someone is in need.

Marlene L.

01:22 13 Feb 25

Quiero expresar mi más profundo gracias a Orange Hospice por dar los mejores cuidados a mi abuelita durante sus últimas semanas. Desde el momento q ellos nos brindaron sus servicios estaba claro q querían garantizar la comodidad y dignidad de mi abuelita. Todo el equipo fue muy amables y profesionales y se nota la compasión q cada uno tiene. Las enfermeras eran muy atentas y cariñosas y siempre iban más allá para asegurarse q mi abuelita se sintiera lo más cómoda posible. El equipo también nos apoyó emocionalmente, y ofrecieron consuelo y orientación a cada paso. Gracias a ellos pudo morir en paz rodeada de amor y familia y en su propio hogar. Mi familia y yo siempre estaremos agradecidos por su atención y el apoyo q recibimos. Nuevamente muchas gracias Orange Hospice.

dayae

00:21 18 Dec 24

The team at Orange Hospice provided exceptional, professional care and support for my grandmother. Their reliability and attentiveness gave us reassurance through a difficult time, always making sure my grandma was comfortable and well-cared for. They were immediately available if my grandma needed anything, from medical supplies to in-person care.Everyone on the staff is kind and supportive, and you can tell they are all truly committed to their work. Our family is deeply grateful for the entire team at Orange Hospice and we couldn't recommend them enough to others who need hospice services.

Brian J.

20:09 04 Dec 24

예상보다는 짧았던 3주였지만 최대한 통증 없이 잘 보살펴 주신 호스피스 선생님들, 자원봉사자분들께 깊은 감사드립니다.자원봉사자, 닥터, 간호사님 외 모든 스탭분들의 따뜻한 마음과 세심한 배려를 짧은 시간에도 충분히 느낄 수 있었습니다.그리고 저희가족들에게 해주신 따뜻한 말들 덕분에 모두 마음을 추스리고 가시는 길 잘 보내드릴 수 있었다고 합니다.또한 환자를 대함에 있어 병을 해결하고자 하는 목적의식이 강했습니다. 하지만 말기 암 환자의 가족으로서 짧게나마 지내보고, 또 의료진, 자원봉사자분들을 뵈면서 환자나 보호자에게 따뜻하게 말 한마디 건네는 것과, 마음을 쓰는 것이 치료 못지않게 중요하다는 것을 느꼈습니다.다시 한 번, 편안히 떠나실 수 있도록 도와주신 오랜지호스피스 모든 분들께 진심으로 감사의 마음을 전하며, 그 헌신적인 노력에 항상 응원과 존경을 보냅니다.

Weldon C.

20:28 18 Nov 24

The caregivers that assisted our family were always professional, and compassionate! This enabled my family member to live in our family home, witch kept his Independence and personal identity intact which meant a lot to him thank you thank you all

Sunny J.

05:07 15 Nov 24

I've worked as a nurse for quite some time, and I'm a passionate home care nurse. I've worked for many different home health and hospice agencies, and one of my favorite agencies to work with is Orange Hospice. I truly admire their philosophy of reaching out to the community and listening to what people say about what they want for their care. Moreover, they do put their patients as a top priority, and I see the difference that they are making in other people's lives. I'm glad to have found a good agency to introduce to people who need hospice services.

sook C.

22:30 12 Nov 24

I really liked Orange Hospice's services. My mother was well cared for by the staff, they were all very caring and compassionate to my mother and my family. Thank you so much especially to Natt and the rest of the team for the loving care you gave to my family.

Darlene F.

18:48 08 Nov 24

I positive .my Aunt would have never received the level of care that Orange Hospice has provided. I only need to text Nat and literally within hours I have whatever meds, weekly texts from.the urses in detail listing all her vitals, her conversation , her well.being alert etc. I.consider myself and our family extremely fortunate to.have been provided this level of care. Believe I have heard horror stories from my friends concerning their loved ones. My Aunt just celebrated her 96th birthday omOctober 18th. That would not have been possible withoutOrange Hospice. A shout out to Kathy for her detsiled weekly assessments . You have definitely extended her life. Thanks to all of you

Walker P.

05:14 08 Nov 24

This is an excellent hospice company. As a DON at one of the leading Skilled Nursing Facilities in the Orange County area I would 100 percent recommend this company. Always professional and on point. All nursing services are on point.

Nam P.

15:54 30 Oct 24

I can't express enough gratitude for the compassionate care my loved one received at Orange Hospice. The staff were incredibly attentive, providing not just medical support, but also emotional comfort during a very challenging time.Thank you

Maurice L.

00:14 23 Oct 24

Orange Hospice delivered exceptional service that truly exceeded our expectations. We are immensely grateful for their unwavering support during a difficult time. Their team was consistently available whenever we needed assistance, ensuring that our family member received the highest level of care. We were particularly impressed by their compassionate approach and extensive knowledge, which provided us with comfort and confidence throughout the entire process. Thank you, Orange Hospice, for your remarkable dedication and support.

Sydney P.

23:24 22 Oct 24

Orange Hospice was a true blessing for our family as they cared for my grandmother with such tenderness and respect. The staff was attentive, patient, and always went above and beyond to ensure she was comfortable and well-cared for. They also provided emotional support for our family during a very difficult time. The compassion and professionalism they showed made a huge difference, and we are forever grateful for their kindness. We couldn’t recommend Orange Hospice enough for anyone needing hospice care.

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Maile F.

16:32 27 Aug 24

I am deeply grateful for the Orange Hospice team. The staff consistently went above and beyond to provide our whole family with comfort and care when we needed it most. The warm and compassionate environment offered our family much needed support during a difficult time and we will always be grateful for everything they did to help us during this time.

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How to Start Discussing Hospice Care with Your Loved One

Why It’s Important to Talk About Hospice Early

Tips for Starting the Conversation

Respecting Your Loved One’s Wishes

FAQs About Discussing Hospice Care

Support for Families Having the Conversation

We’re Here for You

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